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The Gamble

You never know what your baby will be like. But isn't that one of the most exciting things about it?

For example, Phoebe sat through her first in-theater 2-hour movie tonight. She was fantastic.

Our baby has the best disposition ever. What will your embryo baby be like? Envision him (or her) and take the opportunity to smile.

Everything you're doing right now to prepare is worth it. Guaranteed.

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