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Thinking Ahead

As a recently appointed member of my local Board of Education, I'm constantly reminded that the decisions we make ripple through time. That forces us to take a step back and reflect on an important question: Is this something we can live with? And more importantly, can our children and our community live with it?

If you are considering adoption, you are probably wondering what the days and weeks ahead will look like. I'm afraid I don't have any clear answers.

But if you have a deep faith, a strong prayer life and loyal friends and family, I can assure you that you will be on solid footing.

All you need to start is to take that first step. Will it matter in the future? Absolutely. And you won't regret the journey.

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